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Discussion in 'Fred's Barcalounge' started by ZackyDog, Feb 13, 2018.
And if you did, did you feel like it was a weight off your shoulders?
I was married to her just shy of 21 years.
Confronting her now works about as well as it did then.
If it's so bad or wrong you need to confront someone, things will never be as before anyway. There is as much to loose as there is to gain. Not saying you shouldn't, but perhaps temper your expectations of a "weight relieved" outcome.
Life's too short.
I just forget them. I don't want someone like that living in my brain.
Do you know where French Lick, IN is?
French Lick Indiana is a wild and beautiful place! I stayed at the West Baden, it blew my mind. Thats where the Gretsch Roundup was held a year back..
I have to agree that feeling a desire to confront someone (assuming the confrontation is in a negative way) after years sounds a lot like years worth of wasted energy. Best to make a complete break (oh my, that could be the "confrontation" I guess...) and move forward. Very difficult to just let it go, I know. But better off for it. Sorry about the sermon - but having been there....
If someone ever tried to treat me badly I confronted them on the spot at the time. You can't afford to let that behavior get entrenched.
I'm originally from The Bronx .... you get in my face , I'm gettin' in yours .
But I'll never be the guy to start the argument .........
It depends greatly on who it is and the circumstance.
If it's a parent who treated you badly while you were a child, then you would have been powerless to stop them.
I had a wicked step mother from the time I was 4 years old that treated me like dirt. Since my dad died (when I was 46), I have nothing to do with her.
Most of my confrontations were around work. Got fired a couple of times and walked out a couple of times. But to my credit it wasn't always or only about me. When I saw something that wasn't fair...
Living well, being happy, enjoying life is the best revenge.
Yep, very cool part of our state.
Didnt know bout the GreGret roundup, mighta made that,, only 40 min drive...
I do. North Judson is in the South, South Bend is in the North, and French Lick ain't what it sounds like, either. It's one of those places that "you can't get there from here."
It sort of depends, see below.
I thought that was one of the smaller conference rooms at Nocturne Pedals.
Some years ago, I was shifted but good by persons whom I trusted. I had always wanted to confront them, but never had the opportunity. Eventually, I realized that these individuals were simply not trustworthy, nor whom they claimed to be. Once I realized that justice was not going to impress them it quit bothering me. I had won, because I was on the side of justice, what else matters?
There were folks who treated me horribly at work. They've since been fired, their lives have gone downhill. I didn't have to do a thing.